Plan your funeral

Welham Jones provide comprehensive funeral services, from taking the deceased into our care, through helping you plan a fitting tribute for your loved one to arrangements after the funeral, including memorials and tributes

Key things you will need to consider

Depending upon whether you are pre-planning your own funeral or planning a funeral for your loved one, there are several things that you will need to think about.

Common things to consider

Whether you are pre-planning your own funeral or arranging the funeral of a loved one, there are common things you will need to consider.

You can craft a completely bespoke funeral, or you can choose from our funeral packages; built on our decades of experience, these are structured to make the decision-making as easy as possible for you.

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Planning a funeral for a loved one

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If you are planning a funeral for a loved one, you will additionally need to think about the following:

Planning a funeral for yourself

If you are pre-planning your own funeral, you will additionally need to think about the following:

Expert support from your personal funeral arranger

Your Welham Jones funeral arranger is your expert guide through the necessary legalities and decisions. From your first meeting with them, they will steer you through the funeral planning process to make it as smooth as possible for you – from the key decisions through to finishing touches, such as flowers and your choice of music – right through to arrangements after the funeral.

Preparing for your initial meeting with your personal funeral arranger

To help you craft a fitting tribute and to provide the best service for you, we will need to meet with you in person so we can get to know as much as we can about you and your lost loved one.

We will make suggestions for the funeral based on our experience; however, we encourage your ideas and input.

After our initial meeting

Options for you to consider to create a personalised service

The funeral of a loved one is a deeply personal affair, so we encourage our clients to go with their own ideas; the service has to be right for you and your family.

Choosing the right officiant or celebrant

We can introduce someone suitable to the type of service you want to create. Theoretically, anyone can take a funeral service, but that can limit the venues available.

Once you appoint an officiant, they will contact you regarding the specifics of the service, as well as to discuss the deceased and their life.

Family involvement

You may wish to ask some family members or close friends to do a reading, poem or eulogy.

It is sometimes possible for members of the family or close friends to carry the deceased. Please let us know if this is something you would like to do, although you should bear in mind that you will be asked to accept responsibility for any injury or accident that might arise.

For the service, we will reserve the seats at the front for close family.

The funeral cortege

The choice of funeral cortege vehicles and route is up to you. A few options we can offer include: a fleet of modern hearses and limousines; a horse-drawn carriage; a motorcycle hearse; a dray cart. For alternative modes of transport please contact us to discuss how we can help you.

The funeral cortege will most likely start from the deceased’s home, led by the hearse, followed by our limousines (if required) and the cars of other mourners. We can take a direct route to the service or go past places of special significance.

We can also take the coffin home or to the church the day before the funeral or in advance of the service, if desired.

Flowers and floral tributes

Flowers and floral tributes are a striking way to remember the deceased. You can choose arrangements of their favourite flowers or in their favourite colours, or bespoke arrangements, such as animal tributes or the logo of their favourite sports team.

Options include posies, wreaths, sprays, swagging and word tributes (such as Mum or Dad), as well as floral decorations for the venue.

Items of remembrance

There are many ways to reflect the life of your loved one at the funeral service, from personalised coffins, national or regimental flags, symbolisms and mementos for the coffin.

We can arrange tribute gifts for guests attending and photography or videography of the event, and provide a wide range of memorials and memorabilia to choose from to remember and treasure your loved one after the funeral.

Readings, hymns and music

Music plays an important role in many funeral services. Whether you choose from favourite hymns, tunes, songs or pieces of music, you should discuss these with the officiant first.

Alternatively, music can be provided in digital format. Many crematoria will source specific tracks for you. Other venues still function with CDs, or you may be able to provide your own via a memory stick or smart phone.

If you would prefer live music, we can arrange an organist or source musicians for the service, including: soloists, ‘pipes and drums’, a choir, a bugler for the Last Post or a jazz band.

Obituary notices

Many people use obituary notices as a way of notifying a death to extended family, friends, colleagues and associates. We can help you:

  • Draft appropriate wording
  • Place the notice in your choice of local, national or specialist newspapers
  • Organise a newspaper notice following the funeral to thank all who attended, sent flowers or made a donation
  • Publish notification of the death and details of the funeral on our website

After the funeral

Cremations: We can arrange the interment of cremated remains into a cemetery or churchyard, either loose or in a cremation urn, and supply memorial tablets or plaques as appropriate. We offer a full range of keepsakes in a variety of materials, from mantle urns to small pieces of jewellery. We can also advise on the export of scattering or cremated remains.

Burials: We have a wide range of headstones, kerb surrounds and memorials to suit your tastes and budget. A grave should be allowed to settle for six to nine months before placing any type of memorial.

After the funeral

Charitable donations

If you would like to request donations for a charity that was important to you or the deceased, we can accept these on your behalf.

Friends, family and guests can donate to charity in the following ways:

  • cheques made out to the charity only
  • retiring collections in cash given to the funeral director on the day
  • online donations via our PayPal account or via Much Loved

We suggest collections remain open for six weeks, after which time we will send the charity all the donations and your contact details and provide you with a list of donors.

Gift aid: To enable charities to benefit from gift aid, tax-paying donors can complete a Gift Aid Declaration form  and send this to us with their donation. Gift aid is not available when placing on-line donations as we are not a charity and cannot collect it.

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For help with your funeral arrangements, talk to our expert funeral arranger based at your local Welham Jones branch

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